Tuesday, November 07, 2006

The Worth of Dialogue

There are some people who are used to practicing the following technique when you ask them a question: They reply by saying something, which does not relate to the question. I knew that politicians and a few journalists are into this technique. But as I keep meeting people I also see that more and more are starting to use this. This usually applies to people that have a certain position.

Well to me this is just a sign of dishonesty, of being a coward and of not having an opinion of ones own. I despise people who are not able to communicate with other people and just keep saying what they want to say. The point in communication is mutual exchange of information. It is an insult and lack of respect towards your interlocutor if you ignore their point of view by not relating it with your thoughts and answers. It also shows that you cannot afford being confronted with something which you obviously cannot handle.

It is so rare nowadays to find a person with which you can lead a really peaceful, logical, and interactive argumentative dialogue because everyone is fixed on their own world of thoughts unable or unwilling to open up to anything else. Maybe we should learn to concentrate more on ideas and less on our self.

2 comments:

Elbot said...

I hope you weren't talking about me!

admin said...

Ahahahahaha..... No elbot, that doesn't really apply to you. You are intelligent for a change :))))....